By BURKE
how you can easily "sabotage" your own success
Let’s talk today about how you can easily “sabotage” your own success.
Let’s be clear on one thing before proceeding: No one is preventing you from succeeding. That’s right — no one is standing in your way… not your father, your mother, your brother, your friends, your spouse, your kids, your boss, your co-workers… NO ONE — except YOU.
Other people succeed. You can succeed. Period. End of story.
The only thing stopping you is YOU.
So, let’s talk about how you can easily “sabotage” your own success…
If you talk openly about your “big” plans for opening and succeeding in your own business you are telegraphing an important message to everyone you mention it to: You’re looking for them to approve of your plans. You’re LOOKING for approval without realizing it.
What else does it telegraph? You have no confidence in yourself.
The first step in succeeding is either to keep your plans to yourself or discuss them only with trusted advisers and partners who are as successful as YOU want to be.
If other people say you cannot do it (especially family members or friends), you empathize with their point of view but you pretty much ignore them…
Uh, uh… ignore them, nicely, but ignore them.
If they say you’re a dreamer, you’re un-realistic… it means then that you have talked too much about your plans and wasted your energy.
Let’s be really blunt here. It’s pretty hard to convince someone that you can make your living online if you haven’t done it yet!
So don’t try to convince them! You are wasting your energy.
Frankly, I never depended on other people for any kind of emotional or other support when it came to my online venture because I probably would have been met
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